I saw something come across my dash recently that said “There is no safeword”. Now, I know some may look at that and think “That’s Dom as fuck!” while others may not think too much on it and just go on to the next picture of tits and ass. Me? I read that and I think “wow. That’s fucked up”. For…
The Basics of Hot Wax Play
Hot wax play, in its simplest form is when consenting adults hold the candle over a partner and drip wax, sometimes until a large mound is formed. Occasionally people will drip wax on their partner’s genital area or insert a long candle into the vagina or anus and let…
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1) Does your submission - either what you practice or what you strive for - have a label? Do you view your submission as Taken in Hand, domestic discipline, top/bottom,…
Taking care of your own needs doesn’t necessarily make you selfish, just as doing for others doesn’t necessarily make you selfless. It is the healthy mind and soul that recognizes these things and guides us to do both, when they are required.
I thought I would update the list of BDSM links and resources I posted a while ago, as some links were no longer working and I had several new ones to add, including a list of books. These should be particularly helpful to those who are new to BDSM and looking to explore D/s relationships, as the…
Sub Frenzy is a state, often associated with new submissives but can happen at any time, where your desire to submit, play, or find a Dominant totally over rides all logic. It’s like finding Santa Easter bunny & tooth fairy are all real & you want it all…
"I need advice, and you are who I feel I can get it from. My Sir abandoned me, literally abandoned me. One minute he’s calling me an amazing girlfriend, and the next he had vanished. No good-bye, absolutely nothing. After 10 months of being his, doing as he wishes. Devoting my everything, and…
How Polyamory has Helped me and my “Little” Grow - ALolitasLife
As most of you may already know, I’m not only active in a Daddy/little dynamic, but I live and thrive in a polyamorous household. I have my husband (Hubs) which I share a very vanilla domestic relationship with (and two beautiful Minions) and then I have my DD/lg relationship with my Daddy and we all live under one roof.
Often times the different aspects of my multiple relationships seem to mix quite fluidly into one big experience. My DD/lg relationship with my Daddy is very much something we share one-on-one however, there are certainly times where aspects of my DD/lg lifestyle merge into my relationship with my husband and even my other secondary play partners and friends. For example, there are times that Hubs plays into my DD/lg dynamic with my Daddy by attempting to get me “in trouble with my Dad” or going over my head to ask my Daddy permission to play with me such as, “Vinnie, can I fuck your daughter?” and so on. With these different interactions with people who are outside of my Daddy/little dynamic with Vinnie, I have found that being able to share that part of myself with other partners not only supports my dynamic with Daddy, but has enhanced our Daddy/little dynamic and all other relationships as a whole.
I believe I have grown quite a bit since my first days exploring my Little side. I use to grip that part of myself so tightly that I could hardly share it with anyone but me. I limited my inner Little and outer interactions because I was selfish and protective of my Little side. Even in the beginning of my dynamic with Daddy, I was possessive of my Little Headspace and was so set in my ways to “only share it with myself and one other.” Although there are still parts of my DD/lg dynamic that is only to share between Daddy and me, I have grown to understand that loosening that death grip on my Little side has helped me to share deeper bonds with my other partners as well as with my friends and community. I am opening doors and letting my Little run free of my once prison of selfishness.
Polyamory has changed me in more ways than I can ever truly express. I’m becoming more open and loving and selfless. I am becoming more encouraging of limitless love and sharing vulnerabilities with those who deserve it. I’m stomping away those walls of my once tiny box of “limitations” and allowing for growth and development in whatever aspects of life and love come my way.
Most importantly, I’m sharing ME with so many people who I love dearly and allowing my different dynamics to merge and grow as one true Love.